Dad, Mom, and baby Meghan

Dad, Mom, and baby Meghan

Sunday, August 31, 2008

NOLA-please pray for people in the path

Lake Pontchartrain, taken in 2006, after Katrina, we drove the causeway, which is almost 24 miles long

Here are of the pictures we took when we were in NOLA 2004,2005, and 2006, I chose to have my breast reconstruction surgery in NOLA because they had the most experienced plastic surgeons for the type of surgery I wanted, a SGAP. Superior Gluteal Artery Perforator, not a good surgical choice for women who just want a quick surgery, I had to have 3 revisions.
Admittedly I did not get out all that much because I was in the hospital, but we did spend one day taking the trolley to the aquarium. I had my first surgery July 16 2004, a 12 hour surgery which did take it's toll on me physically, and on my poor husband who had to wait for it to be done.
This is post surgery, puffy and on pain meds, a patch, DURAGESIC® (fentanyl transdermal system) CII patch is a strong prescription pain medication for moderate to severe chronic pain that can provide long-lasting relief from persistent pain. Let me just say that I did not feel any pain...we took the trolley to the aquarium. That was a bad idea, but I was going stir crazy. It did tear open some inner stitches which would prove to be an issue for 3 months post surgery, and the need for major revisions in November that year. We drove to NOLA that time.

Pictures of New Orleans NOLA, pre-Katrina 2005


2005


2004

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2005, we complained that gas was less than $2.00 a gallon in Louisiana, it was $2.39 when we left Tucson. Katrina changed that quickly for everyone in the US.


two years ago, we watched in horror as Katrina approached New Orleans, having a fond place in our hearts for this beautiful and diverse city, we never thought it could be as destroyed as it was. It was devastating, what was even worse was driving into the city after our 1,400 mile drive from Tucson, to see the city once more, after Katrina. We were horrified and saddened by the state the once beautiful homes were in. You could feel the sadness from the people who decided to stay in NOLA, but so many never returned after the storm. All the lives lost, all the lives changed, and now Gustav?

Hurricane Katrina making landfall August 2005


So many people simply could not leave New Orleans, the Memorial Hospital, where I had received my first two reconstruction surgeries, was surrounded by many homes with broken down cars, the cars up on blocks, and people living in extreme poverty. Just down the block were the beautiful homes New Orleans was known for, but next to the hospital people lived in shacks. There was no way they could have evacuated without help, and what help did they have?


Look at the sign on the above building....downtown was being rebuilt rapidly it was one of the only places we saw activity, many homes remained boarded up.
Point of contention with many living in FEMA trailers; the stadium was going to open for the upcoming football season. Money was poured into that structure despite the people of NOLA's protests. This relayed to me by the nurses and doctors I saw while getting revision surgery in 2006. The rationalization was ticket sales could bring in much needed revenue.

My surgeon told me thousands of Oak trees were killed by the flood waters, each hundreds of years old. I believe he said over 5000 trees. the palm trees that lined the trolley tracks were also killed.


Neighborhoods formally lined with trees, grass, beautiful plants and gardens, were reduced to scattered tree trunks, battered remaining trees and rubble, nothing was the same, and no one escaped, rich or poor.
Now in 2008 another hurricane threatens New Orlean's, and nothing has been put in place to protect them, to save their homes, we are praying everyone left this time and what is more, the Levies withstand the storm swell.

FEMA trailers, we drove along the levy and every home had one in the front yard, I believe many are still there today.






Gustav-inmformation for families with special needs children

Most of you are up north, but some of you may be in the Louisiana/Mississippi Coastal areas.

If you are, and you are evacuating, I'm trying to set up a page for emergency information on services, etc. for Louisiana evacuees.

This will be a joint effort by the Down Syndrome Assn. of Greater New Orleans and the Louisiana Family to Family Health Information Center, which is a statewide program of Bayou Land Families Helping Families.

Additionally, the Louisiana Family to Family Health Information Center will post emergency information and contacts for families of children with special health needs and disabilities to the LaDisabilityTalk newsgroup and the DSAGNO newsgroup. These are both Yahoo newsgroups and you can sign up at www.yahoogroups. com if you want to get information up to the minute.

The Louisiana Family to Family Health Information Center will be up and running out of my Texas hotel and via our health information specialists throughout the state in Families Helping Families offices not effected by the storm.For the Families Helping Families Office near you, go to http://www.fhfla.org/.

For those in South Louisiana on this listserve, there are notices on these 2 listserves already about emergency sheltering, services and assistance in evacuating.

For others on this listserve, please pray for those in South Louisiana and elsewhere who are facing Hurricane Gustav.

Thank you.Karen Scallan
Program Supervisor
Louisiana's Family to Family Health Information Center
A Statewide Program of Bayou Land Families Helping Families
204 East Bayou Road
Thibodaux, Louisiana
70301
Email: mailto:kscallan@cox.%20net
Bayou Land Website: http://www.blfhf.org/
Family to Family Website: http://www.blfhf.org/f2fhic/index.php

Gustav-Pets & Animals Hurricane Preparedness Tips


An alert I received today, I wanted to post here, some of the info may not help for those evacuating today and tomorrow, but overall good advice.


Pets & Animals in Distress has put the below following Hurricane Preparedness Guide be to all pet owners that could be in the direct path of Hurricane Gustav. For those of us who might have been in denial: It's pretty clear that we indeed are in the heart of hurricane season now, with Gustav heading toward the Gulf Coast and Hannah barreling through the Atlantic.



Does your family have a hurricane preparedness plan to include for your pets? And if you have to evacuate, do you have somewhere to go that will take your animals, too? The Pets & Animals in Distress Web site is a great resource center that offers pet preparedness and disaster information that includes a good hurricane checklist for pet owners, pet friendly hotels and Hurricane Center Directory.



You can visit us at:http://www.petsandanimals.org/pet_disaster_tips.asp



Disasters like hurricanes, tornadoes and floods don't just affect you -- they also affect your pets. And your pets depend on you for their safety. There are many ways to be "Pet Prepared," but you must think ahead and start planning NOW. During a disaster, if you see an injured or stranded animal that needs help, contact your local animal control officer or animal shelter.



Please follow the below tips in case of immediate evacuation of you and your pets in those targeted regions.The separation or loss of a pet can have a profound impact on a family! We should make every effort to insure our pets are safe and with us. A written disaster plan, particularly in households with pets can lessen a disaster's impact and save lives! Advanced planning is essential and could save your pet(s) life and the best recommended plan is to take your pet with you when and if you have to evacuate.



REMEMBER- Public Shelters Do Not Allow Pets! All facilities in a disaster area may be subject to some degree of damage or flooding. If you are thinking of boarding your pet, consider the difficulties of providing a healthy environment without electricity, running water, plus limited supplies and personnel! Contact your veterinarian or local humane society for information on preparing your pets for an emergency.

BEFORE THE DISASTER·

  • Make sure that your pets are current on their vaccinations.
  • Pet shelters may require proof of vaccines
  • Have a current photograph

  • Keep a collar with identification on your pet and have a leash on hand to control your pet.

  • Have a properly sized pet carrier for each animal - carriers should be large enough for the animal to stand and turn around.

  • Plan your evacuation strategy and don't forget your pet!

Specialized pet shelters, animal control shelters, veterinary clinics and friends and relatives out of harm's way are ALL potential refuges for your pet during a disaster. If you plan to shelter your pet - work it into your evacuation route planning.

DURING THE DISASTER· Animals brought to a pet shelter are required to have: Proper identification collar and rabies tag, proper identification on all belongings, a carrier or cage, a leash, an ample supply of food, water and food bowls, any necessary medications, specific care instructions and news papers or trash bags for clean-up. · Bring pets indoor well in advance of a storm - reassure them and remain calm. · Pet shelters will be filled on first come, first served basis. Call ahead and determine availability.

AFTER THE DISASTER· Walk pets on a leash until they become re-oriented to their home - often familiar scents and landmarks may be altered and pets could easily be confused and become lost. Also, downed power lines, reptiles brought in with high water and debris can all pose a threat for animals after a disaster. · If pets cannot be found after a disaster, contact the local animal control office to find out where lost animals can be recovered. Bring along a picture of your pet if possible. · After disaster animals can become aggressive or defensive - monitor their behavior.

PET DISASTER SUPPLY KIT• Proper identification including immunization records• Ample supply of food and water• A carrier or cage• Medications• Muzzle, collar and leash

PET HELP LINKS •

The HUMANE SOCIETY Disaster Center http://www.hsus.org/hsus_field/hsus_disaster_center/

FEMA - Animals and Emergencies -http://www.fema.gov/individual/animals.shtm
Locate PET-FRIENDLY Hotels & Motels - http://www.petswelcome.com/

Emergency Pet Preparedness

Pet & Animals in Distress knows the importance of promoting pet safety awareness, when it comes to protecting our cherished pet family members in case of home Fires or any natural disaster crisis that may occur anytime such as (Hurricanes, Tornados, Earthquakes, Floods or Snowstorms). Having "Rescue Rover" Pet Alert Fire Rescue window decals on windows gives firefighters or emergency personnel a much better chance of alerting them that there are pets inside of a residence and lets them know how many and what type of pets that are inside when they arrive on the scene that need to be rescued. "Rescue Rover" Pet Alert Fire Rescue decals can greatly increase a pet's chances of survival of being saved from a home fire or disaster, and the number of tragic companion animal deaths can be significantly reduced. There is no price you can pay to protect and save a pet family member.

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Don't forget your pet when preparing a family disaster plan. Please cross post and forward this pet safety preparedness message on to other pet ownersThank you and our prayers go out to all that are in harms way!

Brenda Beck, Founder/ PresidentPets & Animals in Distresshttp://www.petsandanimals.org/

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Just a nice video

Not saying I approve or disapprove of Mc Cain's choice of Palin, but I did like this short video.

Friday, August 29, 2008

Why adopt internationally?

People ask me this all the time, they say our foster care system is full of children who need forever families, I say at least they have a home; a foster family... No it is not perfect, families though, rarely are, but they ARE NOT housed like unwanted animals, never seeing sunlight, never knowing love.

I warn you that these videos are very upsetting, they made me cry, they horrified me if I am honest, I will say this, but they also renewed my vow to myself and God to do what I could to help get the children out of baby houses before they end up in these abominable places.

This is a look at Serbia's mental institutions, sadly most eastern European institutions are very similar, some better, some worse. Kara's blog shows two girls available for adoption, they live in a mental institution, their "home" is nothing like these, it is better funded, but they often remain in bed for most of the day, they need families, both girls are nearly Meghan's age, they still have a sparkle in their eyes, they have so much potential. Visit Kara's blog and click on their pictures on the side bar, they are Katerina and Margarita.

THIS IS WHY WE ADOPTED OUR DAUGHTERS, THIS IS WHY IT IS SO IMPORTANT TO OPEN YOUR HEART TO THE POSSIBILITY of adoption or TO HELP ANOTHER FAMILY BRING ONE OR MORE OF THESE SPECIAL CHILDREN HOME.





Thursday, August 28, 2008

Some pictures from Thursday

The girls had a great day outside, I was going to post on their respective blogs, but honestly, I am too tired, so I will put all on Meghan's. You can see our dorky chow mix running by. She is Julia's dog, but was never trained well, and gets out of the yard and won't come back, she tries to bite the tires of passing trucks, can you say "Dog Whisperer"? We should not have a dog, end of story. Live and learn, Julia feels badly now that she is 15, we got Sophie 6 years ago.
Kara seems to be the odd man out today, she is such a jealous girlie,
and pouts when her sisters play. We just hug her and love her, school seems to make her happy.


After I removed Amanda from the rocking dog and put her in the Cozy Coupe ( a gift from our friend Kathy G. 4 years ago. Kara climbed on the dog, you can see how happy it made her!
Kara has such a pretty smile, but she is a beautiful little girl, robust and healthy.

Amanda was not sure what to make of the Cozy Coupe, but Meghan was there to help her. Kara was happy to look on from HER doggie.

Amanda decided it was a pretty cool toy after all! Look at that smile!

I think Meghan is as happy as I am when Amanda wants to do normal kids things, and Amanda adored the rocking dog. She smiled and had a great time rocking away. Made me so happy to see her acting like any little kid. It gave me hope! Maybe.... Meghan is such a nurturer.

Amanda getting a hug from Meghan, ahhh.


While Meghan does not have the thick hair she had when she was born,
her alopecia treatments (Squaric Acid) are doing a good job keeping her hair
from falling out completely. She even has both eyebrows again.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

New pictures of Meghan!

My sweetheart Meghan, I finally got some good pictures of her, she is a head dropper, and eye averter when it come to pictures BUT I was taking pictures of Amanda and she had to be a part of it...far be it for me to not take advantage of a green-eyed monster. :o)
She looks so much like Julia in these, of course they would look alike, they are sisters, but more often than not, her features are shaped by her Down syndrome and she looks a little different than her siblings.

I am so proud of her, she is helping with her sister more and more, she has had some regression in behaviors, but that is to be expected. I feel so blessed to have Meghan. You can see Mandy Moo behind Meghan here, she was playing with my purse strap.

Forgive and forget?

My heart is pretty heavy today, happenings of the last week have wounded me; re-opening old wounds. Through this journey into the past, I re...